Friday, July 10, 2020

Togetherness

I admit that I am struggling to deal with social distancing. It is hard enough in England, but over here in Holland the first thing people do is kiss on the cheek or an embrace. So today when I saw my cousin for the first time in a couple of years it was difficult to stand back. We can all feel something of a loss of natural human contact.

                                            

In the street it is a challenge for many people. Some people don’t seem to realise that hanging around texting while standing in the middle of the pavement doesn’t allow others to pass safely. Others sort of forget and barge past in the supermarket, presumably because the distancing is alright most of the time but it is overruled by the immediate need to acquire a tin or bottle of something truly vital.


It was said last weekend, after “Super Saturday” when most pubs reopened, that it is now absolutely clear that people who have drunk too much are unable to socially distance. That might make it “Surprise Sunday” for some, but surely not for many of us. Especially if even the sober cannot observe it effectively.

                          

One problem, of course, is that to achieve avoidance you have to treat others as if they probably do have symptoms of the virus. It doesn’t feel very natural or friendly. It’s like the situations in the Gospels where people with leprosy had to stay away from others and be shunned. That’s quite bad enough, but this is for almost everyone. But the unspiritual idea of “Avoid thy neighbour” feels as wretched as it is currently necessary. While this situation lasts, we need to find ways of communicating and being together in a way that affirms our shared humanity, and which does not prevent us from affirming our care and/or love.

                                  

Heavenly Father, thank you for all who seek to support, save and heal others. May it be that the danger of Covid-19 will not undermine our most positive human response to engage with others and prevent danger. We do not want to be driven apart: as we discover new ways of being together in communities and families give us the will to enrich our relationships, to support one another, to come through this together holding on to the light and hope which you give us in our Saviour, Jesus Christ.


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